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Best Gift Ideas for Male Caregivers

10/22/19

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Need the best gift ideas for male caregivers? Gifts men will actually appreciate and use? You have come to the right place!

It might be a surprise to know that there are male caregivers. But, guess what, it’s true! So, it makes sense to have a handy list of the best gift ideas for male caregivers in your life.

Although, I’m guessing that you don’t have time – or ideas – to make a list.

That’s why I created this list for you!

For your convenience, I’ve provided a table of contents with quick links below. You may also find something helpful in my post called Gifts for Caregivers: The Ultimate Gift Guide.

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1 Best Gift Ideas for Male Caregivers
2 Services that Make the Best Gift Ideas for Male Caregivers
2.1 Transportation
2.2 Housekeeping
2.3 Outside/Yard Services
3 Products that Make the Best Ideas for Male Caregivers
3.1 Homemade food
3.2 Fun Snack Food
3.3 Gift Card Ideas for Male Caregivers
4 The Best Ideas for Male Caregivers are the Ones that Show You Care About Them
5 If you think someone else would benefit from this post, please share it on social media. Thank you!

When I worked as a nurse providing home health care services, it was not unusual to visit homes where the caregiver was a man.

It was encouraging to learn that most men are very concerned about doing a good job as a caregiver. I also learned how much they appreciate any help from others or thoughtful gifts to make their caregiving day easier.

Male caregivers are providing unpaid care to a variety of their family members.

According to one resource:

A large percentage of caregivers are caring for a parent or parent-in-law (49%), while one in 10 (10%) is providing care for a spouse.

AARP 2015 Report

Men can be excellent caregivers.

A recent conversation with my dad, who is the caregiver for both my mom (who has health and memory problems) and my brother (who needed care while recovering from a severe leg injury), gave me some great ideas gift and service ideas.

Best Gift Ideas for Male Caregivers

I do not live close to my parents, so I give my caregiving help from a distance most of the time. I do a lot of coordination of care and provide assistance with healthcare system navigation.

But, I also help in other ways.

One day, to get a better feel for what would be most helpful to my dad, I just straight out asked him. “Dad, what are the things that people do or bring (gift) to you that are either the most helpful or most meaningful to you? Please be as honest as possible!”

Probably not surprising, a mix of both services and products was the biggest help and is also the most appreciated.

Because caregiving is extremely stressful! Anything to reduce the stress of caregiving is a welcome gift.

best gifts for male caregivers

Services that Make the Best Gift Ideas for Male Caregivers

Some of the services that have helped my dad (actually both of my parents) have been services provided by friends and volunteers. But, we’ve also hired some of these services when necessary.

Transportation

Patients and caregivers throughout my nursing career have shared their frustrations with me. Driving to medical appointments is stressful for many people!

I’ve also learned this to be true from talking with my parents.

So, transportation has been a big help to them. While elderly caregivers can drive short distances, they get tired and overwhelmed driving for long distances.

Rides to the correct entrance at the university hospital (with very large parking lots), doctor appointments, therapy visits, and various procedures are priceless to both caregivers and the patients.

Several years ago my mom received chemotherapy treatments and my dad went to outpatient rehab. Friends drove them to some of those visits and that was very encouraging to both of my parents.

Housekeeping

Another highly valued service has been housekeeping. We were lucky to have a family member who has her own housekeeping business (and she had an opening!) so I hired her services for my parents once a month (for now).

If you do not know of someone personally, I have found housekeepers on Care.com. They have a free and a premium option.

The premium option allows you to search their database, seek references and compare.

The free version allows you to post a job so people can email a bid to you. I would recommend using the free version to try it and if you think you’ll use it for a while, purchase the premium plan to get the greatest value – and the best information to make decisions.

While not a service my dad needs right now, a gift of respite care or a hired caregiver may be appreciated by some. Care.com would be a great resource for this too.

Outside/Yard Services

Depending on their living arrangement, help with outside projects may be a good idea.

My dad mows the lawn and works in the yard for respite so we don’t hire this out for him. But for some male caregivers, lawn services would be a great idea.

During the fall my family has hired people to clean out their gutters or rake leaves (and pinecones). But my dad prefers to do his own clean out of his garden and flower beds.

And during the winter, neighbors have helped my parents by shoveling (or snow blowing) snow off of the driveway and sidewalks.

Products that Make the Best Ideas for Male Caregivers

Homemade food

My dad is a great baker and cook, but he still appreciates a homemade meal or dessert once in a while. Especially something like the good ‘ole comfort food he grew up on.

So if the male caregiver in your life is NOT a good cook or baker, this may be the most precious gift of all to him.

Cooking a meal or dessert for someone else is no small feat. So make it easier on yourself (and the caregiver).

Best gifts for male caregivers

First, send everything in a sturdy, but disposable dishes (#pd link) so they don’t have to worry about returning them to you (unless you want to make another visit to pick them up – which is okay too!).

And second, use this casserole transporter (#pd link) to keep everything organized – and keep your car clean. If you’ve ever taken a meal to someone, you know how embarrassing it is if you have to throw everything into a cardboard box or have a mess of chili all over the outside of the dish.

Fun Snack Food

A thoughtful jerky bouquet will always get a smile!

(#pd link above)

Or, your male caregiver may prefer a box of snacks that will last a while and offer a ton of variety!

Gift Card Ideas for Male Caregivers

Obviously, gift cards for any of the services mentioned above will be helpful.

Some of the best gift cards are either going to be very practical – things to help pay for basics the family uses every day or a fun splurge.

Restaurant gift cards are definitely appreciated. But it may not be used as how you think.

If it’s easy for everyone to get out of the house and sit at a booth or table in public, a sit-down restaurant card might be nice.

These kinds of cards give the caregiver a chance to get out of the house, get a night off from cooking, and a night away from KP duty.

But for people who have trouble getting out, something like Subway or Panera might work better. Food that is fast and can be delivered, or easy to pick up and bring home may be most appreciated.

And of course, it might be fun for them to go out just for a treat. Ice cream, coffee, or even a donut might be a perfect gift!

Visa cards, grocery store cards, or debit cards are helpful because it is practical and useful. It’s fun to occasionally splurge on a steak or something extra.

Family caregivers have to spend so much money on medications, doctor bills, treatments, therapies, etc that gift cards for everyday things really help and can be used for something fun once in a while.

Finally, my dad stated gift cards to home improvement stores were extremely helpful. “Something always needs fixing so I’m bound to use it sooner or later”.

The Best Ideas for Male Caregivers are the Ones that Show You Care About Them

As I was talking longer to my dad about all of this, he eventually said that

It’s the personal visits & phone calls that help the most. It can get lonely and we aren’t getting out like we used to do.

A simple trip to the grocery store or gas station used to mean you’d to run into old friends where you just stand and talk for 30 minutes to get caught up on things.

But, those trips aren’t simple anymore, so they are fewer and farther between. So, a short and simple visit to the house or a phone call is always welcome. In fact it’s a treasure.

In closing, the best ideas for male caregivers don’t have to be super flashy or trendy.

They don’t have to be expensive.

In the end, the ideas that are a little bit practical, and just a little bit fun produce the right combination to make a male caregiver’s day – and life – a little easier.

If you think someone else would benefit from this post, please share it on social media. Thank you!

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Hi, I’m Lisa! Thanks for visiting My Life Nurse, where we provide people who serve and take care of others with easy self-care plans and systems, wellness strategies, and scripture-based encouragement so you can stay happy, healthy and rejuvenated. I’ve found that many people struggle with caring for themselves while taking care of others, but they also feel called to serve others, so they keep working even when they’re stressed and exhausted. That’s why I combine my nursing expertise with Scripture-based teaching. Our readers love learning how to walk closer to the Lord to improve their self-care – so they can begin their journey to feel better – without feeling guilty. Be sure to grab your FREE Self-care StarTer Guide!

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